Another popular resource is, a Facebook-like network for the kink community, which can connect you with message boards, groups, and classes in your area. Now in an expanded second edition, SM 101 includes a new chapter on starting and running sadomaschistic organizations and events for consenting adults.
Ĭlasses, conferences, and meet-ups are also helpful for learning specific techniques, says Thorn. SM 101 surveys the entire spectrum of consensual sadomasochistic practices from from bondage, to spanking, to erotic role-playing, and more. While there's no one required reading list, there seem to be a few favorites that are often recommended to beginners, like SM 101 by Jay Wiseman, Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns, by Phillip Miller and Molly Devon, and The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton. "How to do all the things you fantasized about doing and to do them safely." "I would say the vast majority of what we call BDSM education is how to maximize ecstasy and minimize risk," says Brame.
If you're one of those people who throws away the directions and tries to build the bookshelf on intuition alone, BDSM is probably not for you. Seriously, BDSM involves A LOT of reading and learning.
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